| Hello friends. I was doing a little analysis today regarding the typical client that we get to visit us here. Actually we get men of all ages from various parts of the world but is we are going to discuss typical then he will be in his forties or fifties, married and divorced and from the USA, the UK, Canada or Australia. Strangely enough we never really seem to get really rich clients. I guess they get remarried to another Western girl and continue in misery :-)
Over and over again we hear these two comments: 2. “I am sick and tired of the selfish attitude of Western women.” After they marry here, they inevitably say “I never could have found a woman like this in the West.” What ARE the differences? Well, there are a several sites featuring Asian girls and a couple listing Indonesians. If you take a look at them, you will see that the girls description of the type of man that they wish to meet would include “faithful,” “mature,” “considerate.” etc. My British husband showed me a Western newspaper with ads from women searching for men. In practically all of them was the phrase “Financially secure.” My husband explained that what that REALLY meant was “If you don’t have tons of money, don’t bother calling me.” Maybe in the large cities here like Jakarta there are girls with that attitude but where we live and operate, they don’t generally think that way. My husband told me from the start that he was retired and just lived on a pension and that made no difference to MY feelings for him and I believe that I am a typical Indonesian “village” girl. When visitors DO come here, they are amazed at the friendliness of the people, especially the girls. You see in the small towns, we very rarely see a light skinned foreigner except on the television and we think that they are handsome...maybe opposites attract. We refer to them (in a nice way) as “Bules” which kind of means Albinos. My husband said that when HE first arrived, he felt like a visiting Martian :-). Anyway, when we take you around the town, you will see that many young ladies will smile and wave at you, eager to chat with you. They are very shy at first but will giggle like little girls at the sight of you and many will insist that you visit them at their homes. I have to keep my eye on MY husband as, in spite of his age, girls are still hitting on him :-). On the other hand, Indonesian girls, although being very approachable are also very conservative and do not sleep around. I asked my husband to explain why HE loves ME and this is what he says: “Hi there. At my age you can guarantee that I have had my share of affairs. I was born in the UK and have lived in the USA, Canada, Colombia, the Bahamas and a few other places. Until I met Yuyun I had never been married. So what made her so special that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her? What was so different about her? I'll try to explain. To begin with, Yuyun wakes up with a beaming smile that stays with her for the whole day. During about the four years that we have been married, I have never known her to be miserable or angry (at least not with me but she will have a go at the bank employees when they screw up). I can wake her up in the middle of the night, take her out on the motorbike in pouring rain and she will still be giggling and laughing...how can you NOT love someone like that? In Indonesia it is the custom to remove one's shoes before entering a house. Most people wear sandals which are easy to slip on and off. Whenever we leave someone's home, Yuyun precedes me and turns my sandals facing outwards so I don't have to bend down and do it. When I told her that she doesn't have to do that, she replied: "Please don't stop me from doing something that shows that I love you." When we go shopping, she insists on carrying all the packages. At home, if I try to get a glass of water or make some tea, she insists that SHE does it for me. We never pass each other without hugging and kissing. After three years I find her just as exciting as the first day we met. She is such a caring person that she will always buy and prepare the food that I like before she gets what she wants. If I cough or sneeze during the night, she will wake up and make sure that I am alright. She wants to be treated like a woman and she wants me to be a man. She will instigate wrestling matches with me to be assured that I am stronger than she is. She loves to be thrown onto the bed and kissed passionately. She has beautiful hair that I love to run my fingers through. Never has she complained that I am "messing up her hair," even after just returning from the hairdresser. I wish that I had met her twenty years ago... but she would have been only four years old :-) Sexually she is totally responsive. Never says "I'm tired" or "Not tonight Dear." (Actually it's ME who has to say this sometimes) :-) She devotes her life to making me happy and of course I try my best to keep her happy too. I am convinced that I could never find anyone like her in the West. On the other hand, I believe that Yuyun is typical of the unspoiled girls that one will find here so, if this is the way that YOU would like to be treated, it can be arranged!” Well, That’s it for today...To be continued...Yuyun |